In today’s society, the images of women are being portrayed in a very negative light.
Society shouldn’t be in control of how we live our lives, we should.
As women, we should have a greater sense of respect, love and have more compassion for one another. As women, we should Uplift, Empower, Motivate and Inspire one another. ~50SoS
Society shouldn’t be in control of how we live our lives, we should.
As women, we should have a greater sense of respect, love and have more compassion for one another. As women, we should Uplift, Empower, Motivate and Inspire one another. ~50SoS
When Abiola Abrams was invited to Share her Story with 50ShadesOfSuccess, she didn’t hesitate to say, yes as she shares the same Passion to Empower, Motivate and INspire Women of all ages to live their Best Lives Possible with Unconditional Self-Love.
"It was so beautiful to be invited into the experience of being a part of the 50ShadesOfSuccess movement. This is in full alignment with everything I do as an author, women’s success coach for my “sacred spiritpreneurs,” and a transformational speaker."
It is a blessing when I hear folks say that our moms had Dear Abby and we have Dear Abiola. This is why I consider my calling to be a “Self-Worth Midwife.” My great-grandmother helped women to give birth to their babies, and I am honored to help women to give birth to themselves.
I was asked to share my success story. As my personal objective is to create what I call revolutionary self love with every piece of content I put into the world, I am sharing instead an excerpt from my last award-winning book, “The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love.”
I was asked to share my success story. As my personal objective is to create what I call revolutionary self love with every piece of content I put into the world, I am sharing instead an excerpt from my last award-winning book, “The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love.”
9 Ways to Call in Your Joy, Success, and Abundance! by Abiola Abrams
(An Excerpt from the Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love, Copyright 2014,
All Rights Reserved.)
(An Excerpt from the Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love, Copyright 2014,
All Rights Reserved.)
1. Exploit your uniqueness. What is unique about you in your chosen field? Are you the most caring accountant, the most fun tax attorney, the most bubbly sanitation specialist? Find your uniqueness and exploit it in the most positive sense of the word. If what you bring to the table is a dime a dozen, why should people come to you? How do you add value? My favorite laundry service is called Ladies Who Launder. They bring your clothes back smelling heavenly, and folded in boxes with leopard tissue. They charge more because they can. Their uniqueness has value. Make it a pleasure to do business with you.
2. Dress like the woman you want to be. How does the woman who earns the money you want and lives the lifestyle you seek dress and speak? What is her attitude toward and outlook on the world?
3. Look at the people you socialize with. Your salary, body wellness, and lifestyle often reflect the five people you spend the most time with. Of course you shouldn’t dump all your friends, but open your circle up to people you can learn from.
4. Receive everything. I’ve said it a million times but it bears repeating: Work on receiving. Accept and allow good things and positive energy to flow.
5. Acknowledge the wealth that is already around you. Be vigilant about looking for the blessings, prosperity, and abundance in every facet of your life. If someone buys you dinner, that’s abundance. Do you know that there are air mileage millionaires and coupon millionaires? Sure they may seem like fanatics at first glance, but these smart cookies are taking advantage of the everyday riches that surround us and using them to live the fabulous life!
6. Believe in miracles. If you think that miracles only happened in Biblical times, think again. Be a miracle counter. Pay attention to the coincidences. Be an ardent noticer of serendipity. As Albert Einstein said, “There are two ways to live. You can live as if nothing is a miracle or you can live as if everything is a miracle.” Miracles happen every day. The miracle is in that “chance” elevator meeting with the investor, the childhood friend you were thinking of and there she suddenly is.
7. Raise your vibration. Find reasons to feel good and celebrate feeling good. Spend time with Mother Nature. Acknowledge her wealth and abundance.
8. Change the conversation you have with yourself. “I am valuable, worthy, and loveable” should be words you say each morning before your feet touch the ground. Instead of asking, “Why me?” ask with exultation, “Why was I chosen for so many riches and good things?” Yes!
9. Use your gifts to give back. There is always something to give. Time, caring, food, love, hugs – and money are all currencies. Tithe monthly to a cause you believe in.
2. Dress like the woman you want to be. How does the woman who earns the money you want and lives the lifestyle you seek dress and speak? What is her attitude toward and outlook on the world?
3. Look at the people you socialize with. Your salary, body wellness, and lifestyle often reflect the five people you spend the most time with. Of course you shouldn’t dump all your friends, but open your circle up to people you can learn from.
4. Receive everything. I’ve said it a million times but it bears repeating: Work on receiving. Accept and allow good things and positive energy to flow.
5. Acknowledge the wealth that is already around you. Be vigilant about looking for the blessings, prosperity, and abundance in every facet of your life. If someone buys you dinner, that’s abundance. Do you know that there are air mileage millionaires and coupon millionaires? Sure they may seem like fanatics at first glance, but these smart cookies are taking advantage of the everyday riches that surround us and using them to live the fabulous life!
6. Believe in miracles. If you think that miracles only happened in Biblical times, think again. Be a miracle counter. Pay attention to the coincidences. Be an ardent noticer of serendipity. As Albert Einstein said, “There are two ways to live. You can live as if nothing is a miracle or you can live as if everything is a miracle.” Miracles happen every day. The miracle is in that “chance” elevator meeting with the investor, the childhood friend you were thinking of and there she suddenly is.
7. Raise your vibration. Find reasons to feel good and celebrate feeling good. Spend time with Mother Nature. Acknowledge her wealth and abundance.
8. Change the conversation you have with yourself. “I am valuable, worthy, and loveable” should be words you say each morning before your feet touch the ground. Instead of asking, “Why me?” ask with exultation, “Why was I chosen for so many riches and good things?” Yes!
9. Use your gifts to give back. There is always something to give. Time, caring, food, love, hugs – and money are all currencies. Tithe monthly to a cause you believe in.
About Abiola Abrams
Positive lifestyle guru Abiola Abrams is known as a "America's Self-Love Coach" and “The Midwife for Your Inspired Life.” As an in-demand transformational speaker, inspirational author, certified life coach and ESSENCE advice columnist, she provides empowerment coaching and support for women “spiritpreneurs” to birth to their big dreams. Her last advice guide, "The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love" won the African American literary award for Best Self-Help Book. Her forthcoming book is called “The Sacred Bombshell Business Bible.”
Abiola brings her inspirational “Step Into Your Power” message to TV networks from MTV and the BBC to BET and the Discovery Channel. Her current mind-body-spirit offerings include The African Goddess Affirmation Cards and Spiritpreneur School podcast. Abiola's undergrad degree is from Sarah Lawrence College and her Master's Degree is from Vermont College. Abiola's current online Sacred Business Academy group coaching program is called the Become the Guru Bootcamp. Find her free self-worth kit at OwnYourBombshell.com.
Her main site is SacredBombshell.com.
Positive lifestyle guru Abiola Abrams is known as a "America's Self-Love Coach" and “The Midwife for Your Inspired Life.” As an in-demand transformational speaker, inspirational author, certified life coach and ESSENCE advice columnist, she provides empowerment coaching and support for women “spiritpreneurs” to birth to their big dreams. Her last advice guide, "The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love" won the African American literary award for Best Self-Help Book. Her forthcoming book is called “The Sacred Bombshell Business Bible.”
Abiola brings her inspirational “Step Into Your Power” message to TV networks from MTV and the BBC to BET and the Discovery Channel. Her current mind-body-spirit offerings include The African Goddess Affirmation Cards and Spiritpreneur School podcast. Abiola's undergrad degree is from Sarah Lawrence College and her Master's Degree is from Vermont College. Abiola's current online Sacred Business Academy group coaching program is called the Become the Guru Bootcamp. Find her free self-worth kit at OwnYourBombshell.com.
Her main site is SacredBombshell.com.
Check out Abiola Abrams on YouTube:
1) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPSeP1p9f0c
2) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J8zco9p8oB8
3) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0DtLf_RRB4
1) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPSeP1p9f0c
2) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J8zco9p8oB8
3) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0DtLf_RRB4
50ShadesOfSuccess Sends a Huge Sisterly-Thanks To Abiola Abrams for taking part in this
Powerful Empowerment Movement.
Powerful Empowerment Movement.
We should lend a Helping Hand, a Shoulder to Lean on or an Ear to Listen, when needed.
The Bond of Sisterhood should Become Stronger, not Broken.
The Bond of Sisterhood should Become Stronger, not Broken.
No matter how Successful you are In Life, you can still be Inspired or Re-Inspired by someone else doing great things. Many of us are linked by our Struggles, Adversities and Triumphs –
Let’s keep moving forward in a Positive light.
Share your story with us today!
INspired and be INspired.
No matter how Successful you are In Life, you can still be Inspired or Re-Inspired by someone else doing great things. Many of us are linked by our Struggles, Adversities and Triumphs –
Let’s keep moving forward in a Positive light.
Share your story with us today!
INspired and be INspired.